How to Keep our Children Safe
from Strangers and Pedophiles
10 Tips a Parent Must Know
to Help Keep a Child Safe!
1.
Create an open environment with your child so he feels comfortable
discussing all matters with you. This will encourage your child
to share information he or she may otherwise be embarrassed or
shy to tell you.
2. Know where
your child is at all times. It's a good idea to have your son
or daughter regularly check in with you.
3. Establish
a family pass code. In that manner, if you have a message which
you wish to convey to your child through a third party, the third
party will provide your child with the pass code. Instruct your
child never to ask a third party for the family pass code and
to keep that password secret. Change your password after using
it.
4. Teach your
child that it's okay to say "No" to an adult. Children
need to know that if something is wrong, it is their right to
say no, even to adults, teens and other kids.
5. Make sure
your child knows who to call in the event he or she is lost or
has an emergency. For example, he or she should know his or her
full name, address, home telephone number, your work and cell
telephone numbers, additional person he or she can contact such
as a grandparent or trusted family friend.
6. Tell your
child never to keep a secret from you that another adult asks
him or her to keep.
7. Instruct
your child never to help a stranger who appears to need assistance.
Tell your child that the only safe way to help a person in need
is to go to a trusted adult or the police. An established and
successful trick of many predators is to appear helpless to get
the assistance of a child or young adult. For example, serial
killer Ted Bundy commonly pretended to have a broken arm in order
to abduct young women.
8. Instruct
your child never to go with a stranger or acquaintance anywhere
alone, visit the house of a stranger or acquaintance alone or
allow a stranger or acquaintance into your house when he or she
is alone without your prior knowledge and permission. Sometimes
children are abused by people whom they casually know. The point
is to restrict strangers and acquaintances from having "alone"
time with your child.
9. Tell your
child to scream "You're not my Mom or Dad" if he or
she is approached or threatened by anyone. Children need to know
that they should not be embarrassed and need to attract attention
to themselves in an emergency.
10. Be willing
to discuss safety matters with your child. Create a game for your
child so you can present scenarios to test his or her understanding
of basic safety rules. The presentation should be fun and lively
so your child is not threatened by the topic, but so he or she
continually sharpens his or her skills in taking care of himself
or herself.
Although it may appear
that your child understands what you have taught him or her, oftentimes
children have problems applying the safety rules to factual circumstances.
Beware the Unknown includes a section of ready-made scenarios
to facilitate this process for teachers, parents and guardians.
Studies show that parents can be as effective as trained professionals
in teaching their children to protect themselves from offenders.
You can make a big difference in keeping your child safe.
These are just a
few of the tips that are included and interwoven into the story
of Beware the Unknown. Beware the Unknown is a new children's
book which teaches kids in a fun way to be safe.
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